Storytime With Mom: A Genealogy of Rape

“If two people come together,” my mother began, “who’ve never had any power except by the way of abuse, it’s going to be bad. Both of us had power exerted over us as children. I eventually learned that as an adult, I was still doing the dance, seeking out abusive relationships. That doesn’t mean it was my fault. But I played a role. And your father was abused by his father and, as an adult, he became a rage-aholic…