Stop Saying Now

Many of you who are well-intentioned will talk about how awful things are for Black people “right now.” You’ll express shock and awe and I need to tell you something:

When you say things like “right now” or express your righteous outrage in the sense of surprise you are reinforcing the hurt.




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